Is it Fair?January 21, 2013
Don’t shoot me, i’m just the messenger…
So i had a back and forth comment session with my friend Audi (the audacious amateur blogger) and it something occurred to me.
See, i’ll share a little secret. I like her (shhhhh)
At it’s core lies this problem. She’s worried about spherian mentality about “The Wall” and “The Number” and natural consequences of actions. Part of my latent beta wants to don the suit of plate mail, climb the white horse and protect her as my conditioning under the the rules of GirlWorld commands me to. And another part of me, that itchy burning area of my rectum where the RedPill currently resides is telling me fuck it.. actions have consequences, take it like a man. Derrrrp.
This is a case of going before the judge and pleading that you didn’t know that pissing into the town square water fountain was a crime because there were no warning signs posted.. to which the judge harrumphs “IGNORANCE OF THE LAW IS NO EXCUSE” and slams the gavel down and chucks a hefty leather-bound book at you.
She has/had the same problem i did some 18 years ago… it’s called Naivete.
adjective \nä-ˈēv, nī-\
Is it harsh to be judged and convicted for things done when you were simply following what you thought was the properly laid out doctrine to follow? Yes, yes it is. Especially if the rules you followed were crafted by a society that began an experiment to see if human behavior was indeed a social construct through conditioning and behavioral modification instead of something deeper and more innate… primal. And if it were the latter that was found to be the truth, could leeway be given to avoid the consequences of those actions done under sincere misguidance?
It’s something i wrestle with, because as a decent guy and human being, i wouldn’t want to see what i feel is an obvious good but naive kid who simply followed the path that was allowed for by this current society (a society i do wish to see at the bottom of Davey Jones locker btw) having to accept the consequences and punishment of our now evolved and well informed spherian understanding of a woman’s N and the cruelty of The Wall.
Yet one need only read this (which you probably already have) to realize that i myself, and untold countless millions of others have indeed already paid the loftiest price for being naive. The judges are still at it to this very day with the public trials of NiceGuys™ in the street, listening to the mobs yelling for the Jezebel executioner to throw the level and pull the floor out from under the condemned for their naive nature.
Is it fair that one side is made to suffer full consequences while the other gets a reprieve solely due to gender and timing?
A man’s naivete will hinder him through his prime sexual, formative years. His naivete of female attraction triggers, about the feminine imperative and lies about the time honored path towards a relationship will prevent him from attaining one of any meaning. And he will be punished for it until he is beaten and whipped long enough to see the game for what it is and then either learn about how to solve it or go on his merry way to leave the game altogether and go his own way.. but the PRICE.. the CONVICTION.. the PUNISHMENT will already have been meted out. Anything they do to change themselves for the better will only be after absorbing the harsh consequences of their naive actions. They all must pay their dues. Some more than others, and some are still paying without end in sight.
For men, it is a trial by fire right from the word go. Some pass with flying colors, many will suffer but triumph over time, many will get life, and a few will get the death penalty.
A woman’s naivete will not hinder her when she is at her fertile and sexual peak, rather it will empower her and embolden her to go on a power trip of biblical proportions. The higher her sex rank, the more reckless she can be. Here she will be naive about her own sexuality and how it is viewed by men, how her number of partners and how much fun she is having will be viewed by future men. Her naivete carries no apparent penalties during her sexual peak even when she is warned as such by the elders who knew better, or by those who feel the tugs of evolutionary programming within them not yet over-ridden by feminist reprogramming.. in vocalizing their disapproval towards slutty behavior. “Having fun” just feels too damn good to be considered a hindrance much less a penalty. A woman’s naivete is like a building being supported by a column you continue to weaken past it’s ability to carry the load, yet it still stands. This is called living on ‘borrowed time’. Much like the credit card from hell, you don’t pay now, you pay later.
For women there is no trial by fire. For women, the trial comes without warning even tho it laid in plain site walking around her. The old women she herself made fun of in her youth for being wrinkled and haggard… not contemplating as one would in chess, 15 moves ahead. That old woman IS your future. You’re trial is coming. It will be abrupt and it will be swift. That is the price of evading the long unending trial by fire men face.
The question i hear often from women about the wall and aging is “IS IT FAIR?”. They will get into depression thinking about how unfair it is that men get better with age as women go downhill. They complain about us bastard visual men and how they will obviously be traded in for a younger model when they get older, which is more myth and legend than reality at best, a severe case of projection at worst. What they fail to consider is the sloped trajectory of the two sexes peak power when it wasn’t an issue of fairness back then. Is it fair that most guys are considered ‘scrubs’ or ‘boys’ or ‘ juvenile’ by their female peers and passed over for TheRealMan™?
No woman is questioning the fairness of it when they hold all the aces and are playing the field with the ruthless determination hypergamy demands of them. Not one woman will be asking if it’s seen as fair that the lonely introvert male who already has enough issues even talking to anyone about subjects that don’t really matter to him also feels completely invisible to woman who crave high extroverted tendencies of charm, wit, charisma and crowd dominance. Who feel so isolated seeing women ignore him for who he is on the inside in favor of the muscle bound football star or the devilishly handsome and ruggedly good looking movie stars of the moment.
He will be told “accept it”, “hypergamy is natural, it’s not wrong, it’s evolutionary” and “don’t whine about it being unfair, shape up or ship out, no one is entitled to a relationship/girlfriend/sex”. Is that fair when I don’t see women tolerating these bit’s of advice when the tables turn and it’s re-framed to the male’s position of power once women have lost their’s.
Is it fair that there is a running joke on the internet that looks like this?
Is it fair that at the height of a woman’s power, her teens and early 20′s, most young and inexperienced men have to contend with that monstrous board of dials above without an instruction manual the likes of which Game provides? Is it fair that during a period where woman need only not stuff their faces (and even today that’s not a real requirement with many men having lowered their standards out of desperation) and bat their eyelashes to get top quality men to chase them that guys have to be masters of looking good, acting good, behaving good, earning good, and so on… and even then still getting short shrift unless their game is tighter that rare mythical unicorn of legend… a virgin? No. We are simply told that this is the way it is and arguing about it is foolish, to which i agree. That’s why the sphere exists today. You don’t get to a point of needing supply without demand.
The sphere teaches. It teaches both men and women. It teaches men about how to turn all those dials and push those buttons. Too wake them up from their slumber and their world of lies. It also does the same for women, showing them the lies they’ve been peddled by feminism and the truth about men, male sexuality and the reality of what turns us on. Here’s a hint. It’s not your PhD or your ability to enjoy walks by the beach or the fact that family and friends are important to you. Is this sinking in yet?
But back to teh menz…
A man without game, without the extroversion, the ability to attract is abso-fucking-lutely punished in our current society, especially in today’s day and age of feminism, hypergamy and the female preferred form of promiscuity “The Boyfriend”, serial monogamy, trading boyfriends, FWB’s and cohabbiting until something better comes along.. “Marriage Lite”. Where serial monogamy rules the day and commitment is viewed with revulsion and scorn during your party hardy 20′s.. all those poor shmucks looking for the traditional route of being a decent guy and their beta skills to find a relationship are shit out of luck. Their necks are in the gallows whilst the women are off to the race track to ride the ponies, trading bucks and studs between themselves having their fun… during their most powerful mate drawing years.
So when we hear women speak of how unfair it is from their point of view.. you know, once the power wanes and reality hits home, we have to ask if they ever contemplated the unfairness towards the dudes in the same spot many years ago. Let’s ennumerate it just for shits and giggles shall we?
IS IT FAIR FOR A MAN…
to judge a woman by her age over which she has no control over but may delay by exhibiting feminine grace, fitness, and more applications of makeup?
to judge a woman by her shape which she has every manner of control over simply by not eating like a pig and moving once in a while?
to judge a woman by the amount of men she has allowed inside her conferring ultimate status upon them.. completely and totally under the woman’s purview and under her SOLE control.
Those are the 3 main criteria which men judge women by which determine youth, health, loyalty, fidelity, vitality and fertility. Contrast that to what women judge men by regardless of age.
IS IT FAIR FOR A WOMAN…
to judge a man by his maturity level?
to judge a man by his height or his hairline which cannot be altered without massive surgery?
to judge a man by his station in life and status he maintains?
to judge a man by the amount of wealth, finances and assets he carries?
to judge a man by his power base and his ability to command?
to judge a man by the company he keeps, by those he calls friend?
to judge a man by his current employment and whether he enjoys it or not?
to judge a man by his ability to be funny or make you laugh incessantly?
to judge a man by his goals, drive, ambition or lack thereof?
to judge a man by his looks or lacktherof compared to Channing Tatem?
to judge a man by his musculature or physique which takes years to chisel into ‘attractive’?
to judge a man by his past or his family background?
to judge a man not by his intellect but by his level of education?
to judge a man by his ability/inability to read your mind?
to judge a man by his ability to shut down your childish shit test?
to judge a man by his inability to get or maintain sexual relationships and be viewed as a loser?
to judge a man by the shoes he wears or his lack of ‘fashion’?
I’m sure if i spent more time i could write a longer more exhaustive list but i think i made the point crystal clear. Women are judged on very few criteria and women have free reign over all of them save but one.. our biological aging process. Men on the other hand are judged throughout all of time, at all times without reprieve or respite. Where a woman’s day of reckoning is in the far and distant future, a man’s trial by fire begins at onset of puberty and never ceases. The trials become lesser as age takes hold because of either the mans ability to adapt and respond better, or simply nature adding the age penalty to women finally starts to take hold.
Over at 3rd Millennium Men i was trying to make the case and the argument that both the man and the woman should be at the height of their power respectively for the perfect relationship, but barring every highschool guy learning game like a champ i don’t think its possible for them to compete with more established men in their late 20′s early 30′s unless they’re jocks, so that would leave a lot of dry men out there in their early 20′s.. something i can relate to. Commenter jbaee made a better remark than all of my blither blather about Ferrari’s ever could:
The answer is, what is she willing to sacrifice to get him to commit. A young woman who decides to marry is sacrificing her prime “fun” years. What is any middle age woman sacrificing? Are you sacrificing anything at all when you suggest that a man should choose based on “real love” or anything of that sort? Of course not–you are suggesting men should choose based on the qualities that would benefit you. That isn’t sacrifice, thats being selfish.
And this goes back to what the old grandmothers of patriarchy understood, that women in their teens utilized their power at the height of their sexual biological prime to quickly choose from the best mate possible and LOCK DOWN, sacrificing and FORSAKING all others to be with that man. That man who will inevitably grow into something bigger, better, sexier and more resourceful who will also sacrifice and FORSAKE all others when the advantage swings to his favor because he is loyal, and his word is his bond, and he remembers the wife of his youth (the woman in her most fertile years, who bonded with him thus creating memories that will carry on in the mans mind and sustain him well past when wrinkles develop), thus fulfilling the old axiom “Behind every great man stands a greater woman!” A woman who sacrificed her hypergamous advantage and reaped a loving family and a dutiful husband who would stay committed to her once the ravages of age began to take their toll.
[PROTIP ALERT - A man in "love" with his wife will never see her real age, only the beautiful person that helps make colors seem more vibrant and life feel worth living. I know, i was in love with my wife, now i only have fleeting memories but no love. And i see age. Keeping a man in love is YOUR responsibility ladies! Adding value, being feminine, and showing respect towards your partner and giving him a reason to love you will last throughout time. Bitches and TankGrrrl attitude women will have to deal with this type of mentality[link] should they fail to continue to earn their mates love.]
Feminism took the naive upon a brutal path. A path of lies, against nature and entire generations are just now starting to wake up to the repercussions of it. I have no clue if Plenty of Fish is fucked up or on the fritz but for some reason my phone app is displaying NOTHING BUT women aged between 32 and 45 despite me having changed my settings to look at 22-35. I see women as old as 38-40 who have ‘no children’ filling out the offspring option with ‘wants children’ and i can only shake my head and see another casualty of war. And it truly is a casualty, and it really is a war. A war wrought by feminists against biology and against nature. As The Private Man is fond of saying.
Ignorance of the law is no excuse. I was ignorant. I was ignorant for a great number of years about a great number of things and was thusly shut out of the mating game. And not a drop of sympathy was shed by any fucking feminazi or ManBoobGelatinousMassDavidFuckFaceFutrelle or MegaManginaCuntNamedHugoRapistSchwyzer for my lack of ability and proclaimed a loser NiceGuy who couldn’t get laid. I was sentenced to the penal colony by Judge AmandaImmaIrrelevantCuntMarcotte when she pronounced that i should just “learn to be more attractive”
I did my time. I paid my dues. I suffered. I endured. I learned. And finally now here, at the end.. i’m fucking free from the slammer and ready TO LIVE according for myself and not for feminist ideals or the feminine imperative. I’ve been freed from the shackles of living a life of having sunshine blown up my ass, being force fed bullshit and being told to follow those who do not even understand themselves and why they do what they do.
But what a cost i paid for that naivete. A cost that keeps getting replayed over and over every single day with every new naive beta that is plugged into the matrix. And every naive young woman that also enters the matrix, a slave to her nature and unwitting accomplice to the feminist agenda helps perpetuate this.. whether consciously or subconsciously. They will either pick up the mantle of feminism and stand on the front lines and scream at the top of their voices words like “STHHHHHCUM” at men, or they will simply follow the lead of hookup culture and have their fun as they barter away their sex for commitment in much the same manner as those who would trade liberty for security.. they will find neither.
Only at the end of their trial, when they are being judged as old age takes hold, as their sexuality lays plundered.. will they will look upon the courtroom and plead for mercy. They were ignorant. They didn’t know any better. They were only following orders. For the love of god have mercy.
Is it fair that they now receive a stay of execution and leave the courtroom free of all consequences while the bodies of the men twist in the wind still hanging from the gallows off in the distance… paying their dues?
This is my conflict. I’ve come to like Audi, and i like lots of women who are nearing the wall/past the wall. I want to shield her/them from the repercussions of what will soon become inevitability. The natural tendency for nature to swing the pendulum hard the other way to restore the balance, however fleeting, before it returns to unbalanced in the opposite direction. The complete and utter rejection of feminism, the response and growth of hyper-masculinity, the eschewing of gender ‘equality’ for gender ‘reality’. I want her to be spared the savagery of spinsterhood like so many of her female compatriots have fallen prey to. I want to tell her it will be alright.
“I didn’t say it would be easy, Neo. I just said it would be. the truth.”
Morpheus – The Matrix
Yet my RedPill won’t let me. Naivete didn’t save me..
Equality under the law of evolutionary instinct.
I didn’t write this post to attack women or the way they conduct their lives per say, but more as to how the reverse conduct by men is so penalized, to make the grotesquery of this evolved double standard painfully obvious in the light of day.
I would actually encourage words of advice for Audi and other women, and as many already have pointed out to exuding graceful femininity can melt even the hardened of hearts, and showing a man precisely how you will add value to his life will go far beyond just your looks or your vagina. But with each passing day, you must lower your expectations bit by bit as you compete with younger versions of you in an age where many women have been duped into believing they should trade their sex for commitment instead of building commitment with the end goal of sex.
Women can choose to heed these words or ignore them entirely.. i care not. I already know there will be a shaking of heads and knashing of teeth from many a woman who won’t agree with my summation of things. And i accept that. But don’t kid yourselves.. the sphere grows exponentially every day. The pendulum has started to swing back and judging by the comments i see being left at mainstream media sites to stupid articles written by women about the dearth of good men, i can see there is a lot of weight behind that pendulum. The days of having their cake and eating eat are coming to a close.
“I want to play a game.”
“Live or die, make your choice!”