Revenge Porn is Wrong – ABR is Not!

Just a quick post.  (quick by my standards anyways..)

I’m going to break ranks with a lot of folks in the sphere but whatever.. it’s how i roll.

First read this.

Victims Of ‘Revenge Porn’ Open Up On Reddit About How It Impacted Their Lives

I know a lot of people within our little community are against criminalization of it.. i am not one of them.

I happen to agree with it.

You see, I am a libertarian first and foremost. I value privacy and trust.

I happen to agree with the punishment aspect… consensual intimate affairs should not become dirty laundry to use as a weapon.

Being filmed while having sex that is not meant for public consumption, only private viewing between the two participants means there is an unwritten rule. It is merely for the two of you to enjoy and share with each other. It takes a hell of a lot of trust and enhances intimacy by leaps and bounds! It’s a trust that should not be violated. EVER.

Some obvious disclaimers:

• only subject yourself to this activity within the confines of a trusting monogamous relationship between mature people
• DO NOT start sexting and sending xxx videos to the guy you hooked up with just days ago
• DO NOT start making porn with stupid horny teens who act on emotion rather than rationality
• etc..

There is only ONE time i will accept the idea of revenge porn, and it goes hand in hand with the acronym ABR, What is ABR?

Why am i having such a hard time accepting this?

Animalistic fucking.

I can’t wrap my head around this one. Is there something wrong with me? Am i the only one?

I guess a lifetime of beta will do things to you. Condition some things out of you. My internal caveman has gone into the ether…

The rise of the sexually aggressive woman who wants you to do nothing more than just have your way with her without a single emotion involved is an enigma to me. Love/Sensuality/Romance/Mental Connection/Emotions/Feelings .. none of it. Just pure, primal.

The rise and popularity of media like 50 Shades of Gray eludes me. The fact that women have within them the need to be dominated and/or humiliated astounds me. My brain seemingly is unable to rewire itself to enjoy such wanton, meaningless debauchery. And i had no clue how far this spread. A quick search of ‘women like rough sex‘ will quickly reveal that i am not the first to have to tackle this paradox.

The rise of generic cookie cutter porn has also seemingly spurred this phenomena on. Where the exact same scene is repeated 5 times over the course of 1.5 hours of high definition garbage, with only the ‘actors’ being replaced in each scene. HD should never have been allowed in porn. Now i get to see every intricate detail i didn’t want to see and crystal dolby digital sound of things i never wanted to hear.

I get to see in full HD 1080p:

• women speed fucking cocks like they’re trying to keep up to a 160 bpm techno tune or start a camp fire through friction
• women gagging and deep throating cocks to the point of throwing up and leaving huge snail like saliva bubble trails
• getting the hair pulled and yanked like a horse
• getting choked, pushed, pulled and smacked in the face, tits, ass or pussy
• being bent in and out of uncomfortable positions
• being thrown about
• ending up looking freakish and hideous with the new fashionable look – the running mascara look

does.not.turn.me.on.

I get to hear in Dolby Digital Surround 5.1:

• high pitched shrill screeching
• the words ‘fuck me fuck me fuck me’ about 10,000 time
• hearing the dudes use every douche cliche in the book you’re such a slut – take it bitch – you want my cock don’t you you whore – take my dick all the way down bitch – etc..
• what feels like obviously fake yells of ecstasy, like trying to convince yourself this is what you want, although it’s probably not fake, because many do end up squirting.

I can’t even watch 5 minutes of this stuff.  There is no point. I will not give me an erection. If i DID have an erection, this stuff will kill it.

THIS DOES NOT TURN ME ON!

The point i’m trying to make is.. where did *I* get the idea that women weren’t like this, didn’t like this kind of treatment and that this was an abberation and NOT the norm?