Archive for September, 2012

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September 28, 2012

Out-fucking-standing on the whole post! And i second all of his remarks about the utter absurdity it is for men using online dating looking for a ‘good girl’.

Friday Link Love goes to Free Northerner FTW.

Free Northerner

Slate (always a good place for blog material) had an article on a comment from Quora asking: Why Are Women So Negative About the “Pickup Artist” Community?

Quora has numerous other responses which, along with the comments on this particular answer at both Slate and Quora, vary between pro- and anti-game and which will mostly be familiar to those with experience in the Manosphere. I’m mostly only going to comment on this one because Slate published it, it’s the most upvoted on Quora, and it’s amazing how hard the hamster is running.

I read The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists (which I still think is a really interesting book) and ended up meeting a lot of people who were in the pick-up artist community (not a goal—it just happened).

I even ended up helping out with one of their weekend seminars, to be a “female test dummy,”…

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Why I Love Feminism

September 26, 2012

Because for 40+ years it’s taught us that women aren’t just objects to be ogled. That a woman is more than just a headless body with tits and ass. That there is more to a woman’s content and quality than just a picture to drool over.

And because it taught women to be open with their sexuality, free to flaunt it, express it, raw, uninhibited, in your face.

Thank you feminism for teaching conflicting values that mix like water and gasoline.

Without your ideology, i wouldn’t have my daily dose of the CHIVE.

Enjoy!

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Feminist fuckups strike again

September 21, 2012

The headlines say it all.

Apparently it’s ok to read about it in romance novels and 50 shades of shit…

Women talk about how they love rough sex all the time when not in the company of civilized (or feminaziized bitches) society.

Yet the instant it comes out as a vogue cover:

The shit hits the fan.

“THIS GLORIFIES DOMESTIC VIOLENCE”

uhuh. And perhaps there’s some swampland you’d like to sell me. Maybe a timeshare too?

Feminists have no fucking clue what erotisism is. They want to shackle all women by criminalizing passionate sex.

And we wonder why women are unhappy.

I’m at work and don’t have the time to deal with this nonsense but thought i’d put this up just so you guys & gals can talk amongst yourselfs. Have at it.

From Yahoo.com an interesting video.

Is domestic violence in Vogue?! (LINK)

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Winning a Medal at the Special Olympics… for participation.

September 20, 2012

LOL.

This video is priceless and absolutely worth a single solitary post unto itself.

(H/T to A♠ with his comment over at The Woman and the Dragon)

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Failure to Launch

September 19, 2012

 

I dedicate this post to HUS.

Census 2011: Canadian families get smaller, married couples fewer

Canadian families are getting smaller, the number of married couples is lagging

Check. Women not wanting to marry down, women holding off till 30+, rampant divorce fear. Take your pick. It’s not a good look now.

And while married couples are still the predominant family structure in Canada, their numbers only increased by 3.1 per cent since 2006, while the number of common-law couples rose by 13.9 per cent over that same period. Single-parent families rose by 8 per cent.

Check. A few more blue pillers took the plunge. I will pray for you. A huge margin prefer cohabiting or FWBing their way into ‘couple’ category in the census, how nice. Bringing up the rear are a majority of future fucked up children with no male role model. The decline continues.

Families themselves are getting smaller and not just because single-parent families are on the rise. In 1961, the average number of children per family was 2.7. That number is now just 1.9.

Check. Yeah.. that whole fertility thing kinda puts a cap on having more kids late. Oh of course it’s also much more expensive to raise the little tikes too.. but my guess is it’s harder to keep cranking them out when the internal plumbing has lost it’s sheen and been backed up no matter how many attempts of roto rootering are made. And as OKCupid and POF can attest to, those lonely single moms with children just begging to get wifed up just simply aren’t reeling them in for some curious reason.

The census also confirmed the existence of the “failure to launch” phenomenon, registering 42.3 per cent of young adults in their 20s — particularly men — still living with their parents.

Check. When you take sex off the table, giving it to only the lucky few at the top, you create disincentive for the masses from wanting to leave the nest to build their own nest with another bird, especially a used up gangly, featherless bird that can’t really fly anymore and squawks about how fabulous it is. Factor in a man-cession that killed millions of male jobs, a tendency to push females ahead of males in the new workplace, and the general fiscal responsibility men display vs. the consumerism and debt spending women display, and it’s no wonder that men are opting out to stay home with mummmy n daddy.

Such a pretty little graph. Too bad it doesn’t have a separate line for Upper Middle Class…

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It’s not up to Men to kill Feminism

September 19, 2012

In my last post where i quoted DetiCarolina posted a comment that reiterates what i’ve heard quite often and can actualy sympathise with. Feminism lied to women too. There can be no argument of that.

My response started drifting into a large amount of text so i decided to make it a post rather than leave it buried in a comment.

I have made the same point on HUS many times, only to be told unequivocally that this was not ‘her’ problem to fix, her only goal, her blogs goal, was to get UMC folks hooked up and married. Apparently in the digital domain of HUS, they are secluded on an island somewhere where the rules governing society don’t apply to them. They will just coast along and make whatever adjustments are required to get UMC college brats to hook up in the hopes of getting married, with all inequities and injustices still in play. That is why i left. I cannot condone telling people to march blindly and willingly into such a possibly self destructive situation that still operates under the law of feminism and all its inherent dangers.

Just because UMC divorce rates are a low 17% according to her stats, that makes it peachy to advocate marriage. Tell that to the possible 1,700 men out of 10,000 that will be divorce raped out of their lives. The only way you could convince me to accept an operation with a fatality rate of 17% is if my life was at stake. Given that outside UMC, the rate borders on the odds of a coin toss.

HUS still operates for marriage 2.0 and does nothing to bring or effect change. So i walk away, with my sanity intact.

But back to Carolina’s comment.

It’s often that i forget that a lot of women got suckered in with Feminist propaganda and rhetoric thus were herded away from their proper natural role as a pinnacle of civilization into the feral hypersexualized and gender bent women of today via peer pressure and the need to fit in with the grand narrative Feminism built. I recognize NAWALT as real no matter how much it plays out like a meme. I only need look at women like Carolina, Stingray, GirlWritesWhat, etc.. to know there are great women out there (they just all end up being already married lol) who are capable of introspection, understanding and pushing back against feminism. I would really ask any woman to please check out GirlWritesWhat’s Youtube channel. It will open your eyes hearing everything we men talk of coming from a woman who knows her stuff better than most men! And we must always remember that it is a mitigating factor that women were conned by Feminism, and we must accept that they acted upon a lie, because as me and Deti have been saying for some time, men have been acting upon those same lies too, and paying a heavy price for believing in them. Just as it’s not the fault of Beta guys who followed the script we were force fed in the 80’s and 90’s and followed it off a cliff, so too can we not blame women for following it off a cliff either.

Yes women are victims of it too. Propaganda does not affect just one gender. If a boy is taught and told enough times that the majority wants him to get in touch with his emotions, feminine side, not be aggressive, to ‘be nice’, respect and always listen to what a woman says (and not what she does).. no matter what visual evidence to the contrary, he’ll buy into it.

So if women are told and reinforced constantly that they are just like men, can fuck just like men, work and party it up now and get marriage kids later, live a fabulous life and have it all, no matter what visual evidence to the contrary, she’ll buy into it as well.

I feel we’ve only still hit the tip of the iceberg in terms of fallout from it’s influence in society.

Blame can’t be assigned for those who followed blindly. But at the end of the day it’s not up to men to fix the problem of Feminism’s lie machine for society.

Feminism fucked up both genders. It taught women to be masculine and feminized men. Now we have a world of beta men and masculanized women who cant stand those same feminized men. Those men are woken up violently by the redpill and come to despise the masculanized women. They fight back by learning about being men from men and use this knowledge against those same masulanized women that marginalized them while chasing the dream of feminism, fuck like a guy now, give away your most precious commodity to those least deserving of it (your youth, vitality, fertility, loyalty, sex and love by proxy), marry later at your convenience. Well the alpha men they enjoyed fucking didn’t want to marry them. The beta men either went rogue and became alpha as well or remained beta and bitter. Neither of which will be chomping at the bit to play into feminism’s fabulous ‘have it all’ endgame. Hence spinsters and cats.

The promise of enlightened hedonism for women has backfired (and the lesser men who fought alongside feminism in the hopes of jumping in on the plentiful pussy bandwagon). One only need to see the plethora of hedonism espoused on some of the greatest PUA sites of our time as they slay pussy left right and centre like hunters going after the prize elephant as they employ every facet of game including the dark arts to let these women tingle themselves out of their panties and believe charm over reason. One also only need to traverse and online dating site and see a Tsunami of 30+ year old women all barking out the same tune of wanting to settle down and have that child that their 20’s hedonistic lifestyle didn’t alot for. And society as a whole falters while this all takes place.

Society was built on the barter of sex. Of this there is no doubt. Men always did honorable things for it. They did horrendous things for it. They built cities and castles to house and protect it, Kings sent men off to die in wars for it. At the core of every man within ‘civilized’ society was his trading of utility for access to sex. The Patriarchy, whatever the fuck it means, is what built us up from grass huts into skyscrapers and collecting muddy water in buckets to tap water on demand. It was built with men’s labour in exchange for females honoring the social contract.

Feminism is poised to end that civilization, by allowing women to go feral, and let a derth of men, good decent men who simply failed to be taught how to turn on instant awesomeness, whether the douchebag variety or otherwise go wanting for years on end. Passed over time and again with no ability to string enough ‘wins’ in their column to build real confidence, they turned to their hobbies and video games that they excelled at eventually withdrawing from the thought of doing anything to help ‘civilization’ along. Why bother? There was nothing in it for them. The women voted with their feet and their vagina’s. To the winner go the spoils, to the losers, Warcraft, D&D and online porn. Go without long enough, and you train yourself to live without it, and any desire to build that family that cranks out future consumers and taxpayers as well. Call of Duty’s a’callin.

But at the heart of it all was feminism. The dark dead heart of it was playing that there were no gender differences. We all think and act the same, same strengths, same weakness’s, we are identical except guys have floppy bits around the crotch and always think about sex because we’re stupid bastards thinking with our dicks therefore inferior (oh wait, so there is a difference after all?) And in trying to fuck with nature, they fucked with the course of human evolution and civilization for the next couple hundred years to be sure.

No more grand bargain or social contract = No more chivalry. No more caring to man up, get a hard job to earn a good wage to provide for a future family and work my way into an early grave for the love of a good wife and wellbeing of my offspring. There is no one stepping up to the plate, WOMANING UP to be a dutiful wife and great mother worth the effort of that hard work. There is no need to plan for that big house, the minivan, property taxes, mortgages, loans, credit cards, etc.. required to make a family prosper. No women around me were willing to abide by the old rules to make it worth my time to try. As long as feminism continues to teach women to hunt alpha’s while building up careers and extolling those virtues as marriage/mate credentials in their 30’s as something to consider accomplishment or be proud of.. this death spiral will continue. As long as marriage 2.0 remains on the table the death spiral will continue. As long as men’s sexual urges and desires are deemed unruly and criminalized the death spiral will continue. And as long as women are told to burn away their 20’s destroying their value through casual sex and riding the carousel with a myriad of guys in the top 20% to the exclusion of the bottom 80% this death spiral is all but assured. The internet means the manospheres message will be taken in by men at an exponential level. Every day it will become harder and harder for spinsters to find a chump to pick her up after 30 armed with this knowledge. Everyday more and more men will go redpill, discover game, go their own way, become bitter, hostile and react to discovering the truth by living for themselves, hedonistic, slaying pussy or working just enough for their own needs and give the rest of civilization the finger. More men every day will pass on the knowledge of the manosphere to others. With each divorce comes a new recruit, and all those who witness it primed to look down the rabbit hole themselves.

And it is a pity that good women will get caught up in this as collateral damage.. of which millions of my beta brethren can attest to as they have also been sacrificed on the alter of a great evil social experiment gone haywire. The sad part is men can only band together and help themselves whilst sounding the clarion call of the danger, but ONLY women will be able to fix this, and by fix i mean kill feminism off. Enough women have to go against the HERD and renounce feminism’s black ideology of female supremacy and irresponsibility as it stands now. This isn’t about clawing back women’s right to vote or get them preggo n barefoot in the kitchen. It’s about recognizing men as individuals, with their own desires and dreams that are DIFFERENT due to biology.

It’s about women saying ENOUGH, we got the EQUAL rights we wanted so now STOP FUCKING AROUND WITH OUR MEN, OUR HUSBANDS, OUR BROTHERS AND OUR SONS.

Women need to rise up and say to Feminists:
– stop telling us there are no gender differences and that gender is a social construct
– stop telling us our men need to be emotional and in touch with their feelings and to talk out their problems like women
– stop telling our men that they should be ashamed of their sexual role, function, drive and need for sex
– stop telling me im just as capable as a man of putting out fires, fighting wars or building skyscrapers, most of us can’t and i don’t want to
– stop telling me, my daughter, my sisters that i can fuck like a man without any consequences
– stop telling us our brothers, sons, fathers are potential rapists we should always be in fear of and to teach them not to rape

and most importantly

STOP SPEAKING ON NATIONAL TV AS IF YOU SPEAK FOR ALL OF WOMANKIND. YOU DON’T, YOU’RE A BUNCH OF WHINEY LITTLE PUNK ATTENTION WHORE BITCHES WITH NO CARE ABOUT REGULAR WOMENS LIVES!

But until that day, men will continue to do what they always do.. adapt to the current situation. PUA or MGTOW.

As Morpheus would say, Carolina.. Welcome to the desert of the real.

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I have a dream! That one day, in my city, the city that spawned the ludicrous ‘SLUTWALK’, where it is now all but certain to be an annual event (with dwindling numbers as was reported in Vancouver) they will run into a counter protest led by women to face off against them, in such numbers that the media is forced to notice. Ideally i think no one would be more suited for this than GirlWritesWhat. I can see her verbally eviscerate Feminists on CNN and CBC now in a manner that will make a lot of women wake up. It is just a dream.. but it’s a nice one. If we could get enough Redpill women to get their voices to carry over the feminazi ones in the lamestream, perhaps enough women will wake up to the reality and have their own redpill moment.

And it would mean i’d get to personally meet up with them when they come to visit Toronto.. wicked bonus!

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PPS- i understand that there is a lot of rage by men, who have seen the light and adopted a take no prisoners approach, who refuse becoming a utility to the extreme. That being said, i do not view ‘women’ as the enemy, only feminists. (Like Danny, i love women, not teh wimminz) I want women to be complementary, to be the masculine to the womans needs providing she returns the feminine back to me that i require. I would not have an issue with working harder and longer hours, providing the woman appreciates it by doting upon me and honors the social contract as it used to be. My fight against being a pack mule is reserved for entitled and unworthy women who expect it as a matter of course and entitled to it solely because they have a vagina. That’s the distinction i draw.

No marriage until laws are fixed.

No kids/slaving away to provide unless woman is worthy and feminine (knows her role)

No manning up until women women up.

There’s more i can write on this, but i gotta get back to ‘work’. Hope this clears some of my positioning up.

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If I were the Prime Minister

September 18, 2012

I could fix this problem easily.

Gardiner Expressway coming apart

Billions needed to save Canadian roads, water systems, report says

How? 2 birds, 1 stone.

First, in an effort to strive for equality, i’d mandate a hiring and recruitment drive directed towards women. Instantly adding new construction jobs to the workforce and getting to a respectable 50% female to male ratio in construction and labor jobs. Asphalt laying, masonry, steel milling, welding, heavy equipment operators, electricians, plumbing and pipe lining. God dammit we need to gain equality in these fields and we need the extra (wo)man power to do all this heavy lifting to bring back and revitalize the critical infrastructure BOTH genders utilize on a daily basis.

Secondly, we can pay these new general laborers 85 cents on the dollar.. thus getting past that dreaded 77 cent on the dollar scourge that plagues women’s inequality right now and taking us one step closer to full equality.. but we need to do it in baby steps. And with the extra savings of 15 cents on the dollar that we would have paid men, think of all the money we would save!

Don’t forget to vote M3 in the next election my fellow Canadians.