Just a quick post. (quick by my standards anyways..)
I’m going to break ranks with a lot of folks in the sphere but whatever.. it’s how i roll.
First read this.
Victims Of ‘Revenge Porn’ Open Up On Reddit About How It Impacted Their Lives
I know a lot of people within our little community are against criminalization of it.. i am not one of them.
I happen to agree with it.
You see, I am a libertarian first and foremost. I value privacy and trust.
I happen to agree with the punishment aspect… consensual intimate affairs should not become dirty laundry to use as a weapon.
Being filmed while having sex that is not meant for public consumption, only private viewing between the two participants means there is an unwritten rule. It is merely for the two of you to enjoy and share with each other. It takes a hell of a lot of trust and enhances intimacy by leaps and bounds! It’s a trust that should not be violated. EVER.
Some obvious disclaimers:
- only subject yourself to this activity within the confines of a trusting monogamous relationship between mature people
- DO NOT start sexting and sending xxx videos to the guy you hooked up with just days ago
- DO NOT start making porn with stupid horny teens who act on emotion rather than rationality
- etc..
There is only ONE time i will accept the idea of revenge porn, and it goes hand in hand with the acronym ABR, What is ABR?