Writing about why assholes always win, [comments added by moi]
“6. You’ll [ Hypergamous Woman you] go out of your way to get respect, love or liking from them [ The Alpha Male] – because doing so is a real coup [ 5 Minutes of Alpha ] compared to getting the not-so-special respect, love and liking from a giver [ AFC / Beta-Gamma-Delta-Omega ] who gives it to everyone. “
Without much effort and changing 3 words i could rewrite that to say:
“6. You’ll [ The Man with Options] go out of your way to get validation, intimacy(sex) and respect from them [ Low N, High Self Esteem, High Quality, Hot Wife Material you’d Commit to ] – because doing so is a real coup [ Woman with plethora of suitors/opportunity of handing out sex but granting it only to you] compared to getting the not-so-special validation, intimacy(sex) and respect from a giver [ Slut / Whore ] who gives it to everyone. “
And just as a Woman will fight hard to keep an Alpha’s love whilst recoiling in horror to entertain the idea of entangling in a relationship with those who give of themselves too freely, so too will Men fight hard to keep a discerning Lady on their arm who can can be revered rather than mocked for being the town bike.
A woman wants to look into the eyes of her man and see someone that every woman would want to spend the rest of her life with, and he chose her above all others (the Twilight Principle), ignoring all his options and to commit to a lifetime with her.
A man wants to look into the eyes of his woman, and see someone that every man wanted to dump their baby butter inside of, and she chose him above all others, ignoring the easy ability of her to have sex with anyone and to allow sex between only them to happen.
All girls can get meaningless/casual sex (by giving it away easily), what they desire is the commitment of an alpha, the highest form of validation a woman can get, him committing all his energy, resources and desire upon her and her alone.
All guys can get meaningless/platonic/ljbf relationships (by giving it away easily), what they desire is a romantic/sexual relationship with an attractive woman, the highest for of validation a man can get, her granting only him above all other suitors her intimacy, lust and approval of his and only his genetic material, thus lineage.
Here end’th the lesson.
The rest of the list is a good read too. While reading it – remember.. Alpha fux / Beta bux.
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