The power of the ‘V’ has no power over you.June 17, 2012
A word on vagina’s.. round 2.
Not to long ago i had an interesting conversation with a female friend (the LJBF vamp who is now relegated to a dim memory) about the power of the ‘V’.. the almighty vagina.
But i wanted to expand upon it.
There is one immutable truth involved in fucking someone. If you’re good at it and know what you’re doing, and you have the ability to read a persons body, the stamina to last, to know just when you’re doing something good and amplifying, teasing, pleasing and making sure your partners needs are ultimately fulfilled in orgasmic fucking bliss.. then what you are offering is a fucking beautiful gift. A gift that costs NOTHING and offers everything.
Now, i’m not god’s gift to women (i still need to learn how to enjoy fucking aggressively as that seems to be all the rage now, never knew they wanted dominant hair pulling, ass bruising, choking, pushed against wall fucking) but i got most of the best parts of sex covered. I got lucky to learn my trade on strippers, and then finally perfected the craft in my now defunct marriage. I would suggest to anyone who might be unsure of their ability to fuck with pure confidence (and this is the only time i will ever suggest this) go to an escort and pay with the express purpose of having her educate you on being a good lover. It might be the best investment you ever make, because it WILL give you the power to overcome the bullshit axiom ‘I have the pussy so i make the rules‘
If you truly believe that you posses an ability that is akin to a gift to bestowed upon a womans quivering mound, letting her feminine side take over and accept, no, yield and submit to your mighty pummeling, then the only requisite is that she accept it and enjoy it and want it from you.. then all is kosher.
IFFFFFFF… if she decides to put obstacles in the way, like duties, chores, obligations or blackmail in order to tap her vagina, then you must read it for what it really is.
SHE DOES NOT WANT YOUR GIFT!
She must want it willingly and voluntarily without per-conditions. If a woman says
Her: Why don’t you buy me a drink?
You: Umm no. Why? We just met.
Her: Well you won’t be getting any of this with that attitude!
You: Didn’t feel like fucking you anyways. Almost threw up in my mouth thinking about it.
Entitlement receives heavy neg. Simple yes? Let’s try another one.
Her: Here, take another shot, it’ll be fun!
You: I need to drive us back home alive, im not stupid.
Her: Well then, i guess you don’t want to play with me tonight *wink*
You: Yup. I guess you’ll either stumble home or die in a ditch. Happy trails.
Goading and showboating beget real consequences of actions. Are we learning yet? Let’s try one more.
Her: I really really want you so bad….
You: You have my complete attention.
Her: Just let me buy these pair of red heels ($500) and i’ll wear them to bed for you.
(ill admit this one would have me sweating but…)
You: You got other heels at home that will work fine, lets go.
Her: No! No heels, no love.
You: Great, i think there is a Star Wars marathon on Spike TV. Starts in 15 minutes. Get in the car or you’re walking home.
Financial extortion requires immediate invalidation. And on and on.
See if a woman you are partnered with in a committed relationship tries to extort or blackmail or put any kind of condition on access to her vagina, she OBVIOUSLY does not really want it that bad, so tell her in no uncertain terms that you will honor her request to not give her the fucking of a lifetime. Better things to pursue like photography or basket weaving or twiddling your thumbs. She will soon come to realize the losing position she puts herself in. Not only does she not get what she tries to extract, but she misses out on some fucking hot sex too.
If a female stranger tries to put on preconditions or extort or make you jump through hoops in order to access her vagina, then she too does not want your gift. Further she doesn’t even know you and expects entitled performances for you to have ‘the privilege‘ of accessing her vag. If you know what you can do is golden, you can sit there, laugh and say “Wow.. how fucking stupid would i need to be to actually want to pleasure you?” The ultimate act you can do is laugh in the face of someone who feels they have all the power.
Do you think they would put a precondition on the chance to have David Beckham empty his balls between their goalposts? Not likely.
Face it. If she wants sex from you, she won’t put roadblocks in front of you. Then you are free to move heaven and earth in order to give her a mind shattering climax.
But she’s got to be worthy of it. And you got to have the power to overcome your natural desire to stick it in, because if you do from a position of weakness, she will forever know she can command, extract and extort whatever she needs from you just for the faint hope that you might actually get to see her naked. From there she’ll eventually despise you for being so weak.
DON’T BE THIS FUCKING GUY!
And at the end of the day, you can hold your head high with some dignity. Pussy doesn’t make the rules, you do.