Baby, You’re A Firework – CUM On, Let Your Colours BurstJanuary 16, 2014
Originally i was going to title this “Let Hypergamy Work For You”, but not enough of my bullet points have anything to do with it, so i changed it.
I am going to disagree with Roosh here about whether making a woman orgasm is worth your time. While there are some groups of women for which it is pointless to try, my belief it’s a very small group of undesirable women that fit into it which will be addressed within the post.
I say make her pleasure your number one priority <unless your purpose is solely for instant gratification>. Personally, i love taking an active interest in taking the girl i’m with to new heights of pleasure. Seeing her delight and excite under my oral ministrations and methodical motions, witnessing her undulate by my design – enhances my own pleasure center. My biggest loads have always come from simply observing a woman revel in her sexual delight! Words cannot do justice how aroused i become seeing a woman’s sexual excitement of which i am it’s chief architect (that fall within my acceptable parameters for reasonable playful enthusiastic sex. Those who need to be choked, slapped, gagged, beaten and humiliated to enjoy it need not apply).
And the effort reaps rewards a plenty.
Here’s my list of reasons why.
- It solidifies your Alpha status.
“You are a god among insects. Never let anyone tell you different.” – Magneto/X3
Remember, the fact that you are having sex with her indicates you had enough game and alpha cred to get those legs to open. Now hammer it home to make sure you are one to occupy her mind when she’s having her 5 Minutes of Alpha moment. Sure you can be alpha and still completely ignore her needs.. and she’ll still probably keep coming back for more of the same, if she’s a self esteem cripple with no father figure (avoid for LTR).. but nailing her to the point of setting off her fireworks cements the Twilight fantasy if you intention is for something more long term.
- Women ‘gossip’. Word spreads. They talk about partner count. Penis size. If he knew what he was doing. Whether he likes going down and whether he’s a GOD with his tongue (yes, yes i am ladies). They enjoy one upping each others partners with schoolyard ‘My partner is better than your partner‘ brinkmanship – or they will find girlworld solidarity in cruelly enumerating just how bad you were by judging your performance. What image would you rather have dancing in all her cute friends minds. That you’re a 5 minute/roll over and done jackass or that you’re a sexual tyrannosaur?
- Your reputation can follow you. If you’re taking care of business, bait and encourage those with whom you’ve smashed hips with and who have social media accounts like Assbook and Shitter to reveal how much she enjoyed ‘last night’. Nothing screams “This man has a mighty dick and knows how to swing it!” like the slightly unsolicited critical review plastered on the biggest digital billboard on the planet! Don’t be surprised if Angela from 6th grade who you friended a year ago, and who’s status says anything from Single to It’s Complicated ‘pokes’ you…Christ the only way you’d get more exposure is if you recorded your dick for 30 seconds with a voice-over of you partner reading off her description of ‘last night’ and got it played during the Super Bowl!
Once word gets out, sit back, relax and let nature take it’s course. Works better than AxE!
- Even if you only intend a 1 and Done, one night stand.. should you ever hit a dry spell and desire to hit her up again or ‘accidentally’ run into her.. how likely is the chance of her wanting to relive an exciting memory for old times sake if you left her feeling completely unsatisfied and cheated?
- By making her body shake and quake like it’s convulsing under a Pokemon induced seizure [Picachu you little yellow rat bastard!], you help release the bonding chemicals of cling. While too much cling is never a good thing (can you say crazy stalking lady) it never hurts to make her have ‘One-itus’ for you.As they say in tennis – Advantage YOU. And when a girl has Oneitus for you, you can bet her sweet ass that all of her friends would love to have a man like that, perhaps EVEN the man she speaks so glowingly about around the office water cooler! Like vultures circling a carcass, they’ll wait for signs of trouble and bide their time. When it comes to hypergamy, all’s fair in love and war. Women will eat their own. Mate poaching is a thing ya know.
- A completely satisfied woman who is wearing the orgasmic glow of a thousand stars gone nova will do anything.. and i mean virtually anything you want, to the point where you could claim it becomes hypnotic suggestion. A woman spent is a woman who wants to please in return. No more ‘ewww’ face, they’ll swallow you like they haven’t eaten in weeks, and they’ll do it with a smile on their face!
[ of course there are some women out there that will do this on a cold call... but they usually demand a whole lot more as well. Persue at your own risk ]
You are also pretty much guaranteed cuddles and pancakes in the morning!
- Because working at it as your goal gives you something to shoot for and master so you can take pride in. To become that sexual Casanova that can proudly be writing checks that both your ego and your cock will know they can cash! As i said in my Incel post.. when i did those strippers and realized i had mastered control over my stamina, my body and my climax, my confidence reservoir hit capacity! While i was still Beta and unsure of a whole lot of things in my life, and still not self actualized or redpill aware, the one thing i had absofuckinglute confidence in was my ability in the sack. That confidence radiated from me like Fukushima and women picked up on it. What held me back was not having enough game to take me into conversations that could lead to sexual questioning and innuendo. Hence why i continued to game strippers since introductory conversations were not a requisite and polite company not required before striking up talk of my tongue on her pulsating clit.
Every man has to find his own way to build up his stamina. Whether it’s continual practice, edging, watching so much porn you get desensitized, using desensitizing cremes, lotions or potions, double bagging condoms, tantric control.. whatever, i encourage guys to learn how to read the body language of women and amplify and to be able to keep your own orgasm under control so you don’t bust early. At one point i even suggested it’s worth it for those who are so afraid to hire professional escorts to teach them control by focusing off their own excitement and focusing purely on giving pleasure. Knowing you know how to handle a female in bed and give her the gift of orgasm is like drinking a cocktail of testosterone, steroids and liquid Viagra with a shot of Jack Daniels! And women can smell that scent from a mile away! And ultimately it allows you to face rejection better, you won’t be bitter, because you were the prize, your ability was the gift and she showed herself unworthy, freeing you up to walk away smiling moving on to the next woman who might earn the gift.
- Because it’s the right thing to do! Sex is supposed to be a reciprocal enjoyment of each other wanting to please each other. Otherwise it’s as one blogger said “Masturbation with a warm body” [can't recall where i saw this, if anyone knows, comment so i can link it]. Sex is best when you are both putting your partners needs ahead of your own. Giving encourages more giving back. Reciprocity is the foundation of both great relationships and great sex.
Obviously my list isn’t for everyone. And i’m not saying that wanting to have the odd one-off instant gratification blowjob is a crime, as long as it’s kept in perspective. Sometimes i just want a release, and my girl is happy to oblige without a reciprocal requirement. She does it because she wants to. And vice-versa. In my advanced old age, there are days where i’m actually not horny and don’t care to, but she has needs so i will help her ‘rub one out’.. pro bono. We want the other person to be happy because it instills in them the desire to want to give back even more than taken in.
Although i’m not a chest banging, keyboard warrior who encourages all men to go hedonistic and go out to pump and dump sluts, I don’t recommend putting that kind of energy into women who are selfish themselves who just treat men as walking dildo’s as they shop for their next dopamine hit of new car smell. Nor do i recommend it for broken women and self-esteemless dregs who are willing to accept being treated like filthy sluts and want to be denigrated and humiliated because that’s what gets them off. Why try, just cake their face like a Krispy Kreme donut and go home.. they’re as happy as a pig in shit that you dominated them and chocked the shit out of them and shat on them and.. well, you get the idea.
And i’m sure a bit of this list will come off as misogynistic because it advocates utilizing women’s hypergamy to create more options in the background for your own SMV to rise in relation to hers, consolidate more power and control within a relationship and kill one-itus in men. Yes it can increase the chances to spin more plates and become a notch banger. But it’s not misogynistic. It’s called leveling the playing field. It’s to help men build up the same advantage women have, to allow men to be able to enjoy serial monogamy like women do. It is for optimizing the male sexual strategy.
In my ideal world, guys will want to please the woman they’re with because she’s earned it by being feminine, affectionate, receptive and giving respect. To those women whom you CHOSE for exemplary qualities whom earned the right to be given the 9.7 on the cum-cataclysm scale. But whereas women can have a relationship with a guy for a year, drop him and pick up with someone new the very next day without breaking a sweat.. men too deserve the right to cultivate that ability by utilizing hypergamy’s natural effects and web of influence.
Everyone who enters the sphere is taught about hypergamy and then taught not to hate it. It evolved for a reason to serve female sexual interests. It is a fact that women act on hypergamy and that’s ok. And it’s also ok to use it to your advantage as well.
So go on, get out there, i want to hear the night cum alive with the sound of women screaming YOUR name and letting their colors burst! And enjoy your pancakes…
Boom boom boom.