Archive for June, 2012

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One womans take on Mr. Grey

June 28, 2012

So on OKCupid there’s a section in the profile called..

I SPEND A LOT OF TIME THINKING ABOUT:

which i filled in with the following blurb for shits n giggles:

 

50 shades of gray and why it’s so popular? oh wait.. i know why ;)

 

 

 

I pose the question firstly just to get their minds running if they already have read it and gotten moist over it. Then by coyfully saying that i understand it, i assume the position of Mr. Grey.

 

Well one woman actually sent me a message about it. She mistook or misunderstood that i am not at all confused over why it’s so popular (sarcasm obviously doesn’t translate well on teh internetz) and went into some detail to help me understand it.

 

These are all her own words, unedited and redacted.
I’m pretty sure from reading through your questions that I’m not really your type. [yes, a few extra pounds is not my type] But your “thinking about section”… well, I just thought I’d throw an answer out to you re: Fifty Shades of Grey. It’s terribly written. It’s embarrassing to admit that you’ve read them. But every woman I know has. And been so turned on. But… and this is the thing that makes it successful. There is this distracting top layer that everyone can talk safely about which is the hot sex scenes, the forbidden joys of BDSM. It’s scandalous and titillating to discuss bondage and nipple clamps and dominance and aggressive passionate sex. But…. hidden beneath the hot BDSM sex is the real female fantasy. And no self-respecting modern day woman wants to admit it. That’s why we all get a rush pretending, even to ourselves, that it’s really about the sex. It’s not. It’s about being taken care of. Mr. Grey is a domineering, overprotective, rich, capable, confident, strong, self-made man who actually does all of that because he wants to protect and cherish and take care of, and yes, control… his precious little thing. And it’s that desire, the WANTING to be someone’s precious little thing, that women are so getting off on. But, none of us have to actually admit it. It would make us pathetic, and weak, and girly girl to admit to having THOSE fantasies. Way easier to admit to fantasies about bondage and pain.

I have my own take on this view of her’s but i’d like to get some of your reactions before i jump in. Please discuss.

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For posterity’s sake that words should not be disappeared

June 28, 2012

pos·ter·i·ty

[po-ster-i-tee]

noun
1. succeeding or future generations collectively: Judgment of this age must be left to posterity.
2. all descendants of one person: His fortune was gradually dissipated by his posterity.

I take no major credit for this post.. it wasn’t written by me :)

The reason this post exists is because i am a staunch libertarian and believe that opinions and ideas should be free to live and die by their own merits, and not by the swift cutting hand of an editor trying to silence words that do not conform to their ideal framing of the world. It does not matter if the silencer is a nice lady who you like or a man with a funny stash who likes to cast unwanted books into the bonfires with great joyous ceremony, band-playing, “fire oaths,” incantations and playing songs such like Der Königgreatzer.

I LOATHE censorship. Could you tell?

Unless a specific death threat or assassination of character, (or in a blogs case EXTREME trolling) i can’t see why someone’s opinion about something should be stricken from the records of history and time. Even if it goes against the ‘mission’ you’ve driven your life’s work towards, simply hitting the delete key because it offends your sensibilities is wrong wrong wrong. If your blog is a place where you have extremely high traffic from both male and female members looking for information, ideas, debate, etc.. regarding the dysfunction that is the current SMP, then they are not simply going there to hear ‘your’ side of the story, they want it all. They don’t want to be TOLD what to believe, they want to make that informed decisions on their own.

And by redacting or removing vital points of view from a running thread, points of view which have as much merit as any other point of view, you are not only insulting the people who come to your site to read and judge for themselves.. you are harming people by purposefully withholding information, thoughts, ideas, analysis that might allow them to take the correct course of path their lives need to head towards EVEN if it is at odds with your current mission.

I don’t think i need to actually write down the site in question or the operator.. most all of you who comment know. So without further delay i present to you the comments that were redacted in what i think is the correct chronological order in which they appeared. If anyone wants to correct me, please send me a line and i’ll fix it.  So let’s get started, after the jump.

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Reverse the genders of a story and what do you see?

June 28, 2012

Pictured: Engaged cheerleading coach, 22, ‘who performed sex act on teen basketball player in her car’

Pictures have emerged showing the cheerleading coach accused of performing oral sex on a 17-year-old student kissing her fiance and partying with friends ahead of her arrest.

Megan Crafton, 22, handed herself in to police on June 15 after the teenage boy, who was on the school basketball team, told officers about the liaison in the parking lot of a grocery store in January.

FULL STORY HERE

You know… someone wrote a post somewhere on the manosphere about this kind of behavior by female teachers, authority figures, etc.. not being an epidemic.

It might not be, but it’s becoming a helluva lot more frequent.

But that’s not the issue.

The issue is if it was a man instead of a woman.. feminists would be going wild, and the justice system would be coming down on his head, and the media would eviscerate him.

But a hot chick does it… well.. lucky boy.

Double standards, how i do love’m.

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Millennials are screwing up more than just the SMP

June 28, 2012

I have no faith for the human race. It was already bad enough with many of my own generation born in the 70’s. With the advent and rapid evolution of both technology and feminism, we have created a generation of parasites.

As the cappy says ‘Enjoy the decline’.

Millennials:

They’re Needy

They’re Entitled

They’re Disloyal

Hit the link to see for yourself.

Millennial workers: Entitled, needy, self-centered?
Reporting on two particular workplace trends has become de rigueur. One, the number of baby boomers preparing to retire, and two, the professional nature of the green twentysomethings poised to fill the desk chairs of their predecessors.

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The Wisdom of Mike C.

June 26, 2012

Sometimes the conversations there can bring about a powerful understanding into the discrepancy between the though processes of the sexes.

This one is brought to you by Mike C. at comment 398

Here’s the setup up. The concept of ‘spinning plates’ was brought up by myself and a few others in this thread. Susan and Co. take umbrage at the idea of men working multiple women at the same time until a firm offer of exclusivity comes up by the female. Jimmy gets the ball rolling by asking Susan:

“can you honestly argue that it doesn’t place him in a more advantageous situation than if he were sexually pursuing either girl exclusively from the get go?”

Susan replies:

Of course it does, and he can generally pull it off only by lying by omission. Since you claim that many women don’t mind, why not be up front about his activities and what he is looking for? “Just so you know, you’re not the only person I’m doing this with.” Heck, according to your theory, this should be a DHV.

They have a few back and forth before Jimmy ends on:

@Susan
You seem to be advocating exclusivity before a committed relationship is even established.

followed with

@Susan
Just curious, is it a lie by omission if a girl doesn’t announce her count to a potential bf before he commits to her? After all, that’s information that will help him make an informed decision… Using your standard

It’s at this point where Mike C. jumps in and really lays it all out on the table for all to see with eyes wide open. His ability articulate this succinctly is breathtaking. Enjoy the read, it’s after the jump.

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MARRIAGES DON’T FAIL…

June 26, 2012

Had to share. Sorry, could not pass this up.

 

Order yours today and tell them M3 sent ya LOL.

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Power means walking away, not crawling

June 26, 2012

Quick post here, just ran my last encounter with the failed FWB through my head and realized what i did and why i’m proud of myself.

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I did what her previous guy did not.

I walked away on my terms, for my interests and made no compromise.

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When she first showed signs that she was calling it quits and that their relationship was toast, he ramped up his neediness, he put the texting into overdrive, he would call or drop by often to ‘talk’, to try and convince her they should still be together.

If you have to ‘convince‘ someone to be with you.. no surrender, no retreat…

No one should have to be convinced to want to be with the awesomeness that you are. If you have it all and nothing to prove, and she’s seen it all and still can’t come to the logical conclusion that you’re perfect…

I liked her. I would have loved to continue pursuing a FWB situation with her. Still wanted to treat her to things, take her out alpha style, nurture her girly side beta style, and get her flowers for the hell of it once in a blue moon omega style. But i wasn’t going to beg her or try to convince her that it was in her best interest to do so. Hell, she still hadn’t done enough to qualify to me that she was worth it, but i put the bait out there if she wanted to aspire to become more than who she was and become part of something greater.

She made her choice.

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